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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">络家族经营的理性思考</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;"><br/><br/></span><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">作为一个虚拟社会</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">他的凝聚力与整合力的生发点在哪里：</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">是仅仅依靠情感裙带凝聚</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">还是搭建一定的专向实力平台，依靠文化观念整合，是否在理论上情感上理清了虚拟与现实的分别？</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">作为一个家族组织</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">如何面对社会文化策略主导的网络社会的个体离散：</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">是否一厢情愿地以己推人而不清楚网络玩家的生态特点，是气急败坏地指责与咒骂还是建构完善的管理机制，自然有序地吐故纳新？铁打的营盘流水的兵。</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">家族的核心负责人的理论构想与宏观发展策略停留在哪一个层面：</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">家族管理的理念，家族的生命力，家族运转的动力，对玩家的感召力何在？是否依旧是理想主义的个体臆想</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">随缘主义的无为而治</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">游乐主义的开心就好，个性使然的迎拒容斥，团伙主义的拉帮结派？</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">家族发展的阶段性目标是否明朗：</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">包括</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">:</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">合理目标预期</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">规章制度创建</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">家族规模控制</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">发展速度平衡</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">; <p></p></font></span></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">家族管理的轴心与层次是否清晰</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">; </font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">包括：轴心的构想</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">-</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">策动</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">-</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">凝聚</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">-</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">调控</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">-</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">战斗能力水平，管理责任的分派析出与管理层级设置，层级权限的支配与执行能力。出勤时间点与频率如何？</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">论坛阵地的绩效如何：</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">论坛的宣传方向与喉舌作用发挥如何，版主的文学功底、理论水平与宣传才能如何，论坛人才储备如何，论坛的激励制度如何？</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">成员与家族的关系是否良性互动：</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">新老管理员的制度化交接，家族元老的责任，家族对元老们以何种方式的记忆与遗忘，普通成员的归属感如何获取，新旧群体之间情感的链结方式，高手与低手之间对话的姿态</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">……</font></span></strong></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"></font></span></strong></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"></font></span></strong></p><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">家族必须的几种人才</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red;"><br/></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt;"><br/><br/><strong><span style="COLOR: #660066;">1</span></strong></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">，帅才。统领全局，对家族有明确的发展思路和方向。个人具备的素质：有魅力，有魄力！</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><strong>2</strong></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">，将才。能独挡一面，同时有良好的人缘和自身素质！</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">专业的指挥人员</span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><strong>3</strong></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">，高手。依靠自己在游戏中某一方面的特长，让其它成员佩服的成员。</span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><strong>4</strong></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">，活跃人才。宣传家族，调活家族气氛，在比赛中呐喊助威，积极扩大家族的影响力！</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><strong>5</strong></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">，灌水人才。活跃论坛，让家族达到内外兼修，让成员感到家的热闹和温馨！同时用论坛来增加家族的凝聚力，树正气，在论坛中大家统一思想，一起朝着共同的目标迈进！</span></strong></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';"></span></strong></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';"></span></strong></p><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';"><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">家族兴旺与衰败见解</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red;"><font face="Times New Roman">——</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">他山之石可以攻玉</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt;"><br/><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要兴旺，首先要有一个灵魂人物，唯马首是瞻，振臂一呼，应者如云；</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要冷落，只需要灵魂人物稍有懈怠，或者由伟岸转为猥琐，简单得很；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><font face="Times New Roman"><strong> </strong><br/></font></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要兴旺，必须有几个好的称职的副管理员支撑着，保驾护航。所谓一个篱笆三个桩，一个好汉三个帮；</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要冷落，只需要部分管理人员看问题抓不住重点，回帖时经常地说些不疼不痒的话，简单的：是，同意，好，支持等。这些回话谁都会；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要兴旺，必须有几个富有个人魅力的专业写手或者评论家，需要他们夜以继日地为家族规划前景；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要冷落，只需要大家都不说真话，都在打哈哈，你好我好大家好，时间长了，变成稍有点义正言辞，就浑身长刺接收不了，到时真假难辩；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要兴旺，必须有人拍砖。好比商店开业，好比耍把戏的要开场，要有人吆喝。最好的方式，就是砖飞瓦横，唾星乱溅。拍砖不是吵架，是斗智斗勇斗急才。吵架的拍砖，不能称之为拍砖，应该是骂街，那样也无法给论坛聚集人气；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要冷落，只需要多骂几次街，让所有人都暴露出小市民的本性，臭名远扬了，自然没人加入；</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要兴旺，还需要各部门各自扮演各自的角色，红脸白脸花脸，青衣小生老旦，不能一肩挑。家族只需要一两个综合型人才，就好像看戏一样，喜欢花脸就是喜欢花脸，喜欢花旦就是喜欢花旦，妄想让一个人既唱花脸又唱花旦，而且能同样出彩，很难；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><font face="Times New Roman"><strong> </strong><br/></font></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要冷落，只要大家角色不能很好转换，思维混乱，让玉女脱衣裳，让</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman">“</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">小姐</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">穿服装，时间长了，肯定歇菜；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><font face="Times New Roman"><strong> </strong><br/></font></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要兴旺，必须有集体观念。心往一处想，劲往一处使。管理层之间要团结，写手之间要尊重。切勿忌贤妒能，勿搞小团体，勿结帮拉派；</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要冷落，只要管理员或者中层管理员相互结党营私，互相诋毁，文人相轻，陋习难改，就很容易日落西山；</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要兴旺，管理者们要虚怀若谷，要能听进别人不同意见，要知道，四海之内皆兄弟也。人间大舞台，网上小世界。要大肚能容天下事，宰相肚里行大船；</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><font face="Times New Roman"><strong> </strong><br/></font></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要兴旺，管理员要博爱。大家都是兄弟姐妹，为了一个共同的目标，走到一起来。不能厚此薄彼，不能儿女私情。</span></strong></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';"></span></strong></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';"></span></strong></p><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';"></span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">家族壮大之路</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt;"><br/><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族最紧要是好玩</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">不是说靠高手多就能提升人气或者是能吸引更多的人加进家族，即便是加进来的成员久之发现家族枯燥无味也都会相继淡出</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">, </font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">凝聚不了人气，导致家族死人过多。</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">毕竟是网络，一却都是虚幻的，表面上肝胆相照，暗地里挥矛相对，一却都是假象</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">..... </font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">俗话说哪里好玩往哪去，这是网络中最真实的写照；只要家族好玩，才能荣获人心凝聚人气。</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">“</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">家族有人气，马甲也能变花样！</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">” </font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">不是说凭几个老面孔常在线或几个成员对家族比较忠诚就以为家族得人心，有支持者，这样认为的话只会让家族停步不前。</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><p></p></span></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">一个家族要做到好玩，要做到让一些有意无间加进来的成员进来后喜欢呆在这里边玩，想让更多人长时间以家族号在线</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">,</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">其中不能少了如下最紧要</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman">3</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">点：</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/><strong><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></strong></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">、很多的人员都是为了打架爽，不被欺负才进的家族，而有时被别人欺负了，又没有自己家族的人去帮忙，这样会让新成员心很寒的。</span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/><strong><font face="Times New Roman">2</font></strong></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">、游戏中的装备问题是个永远的难题，空虚的网络，麻木的数字能改变很多人对家族的看法。</span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/><strong><font face="Times New Roman">3</font></strong></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">、应在家族内部论坛多设一些奖励措施，例如文章奖励、论坛活跃奖励、各方面活动等等，趣味性增强才是治本之所在！</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><p></p></span></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">闲来无事，谈谈家族</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">当你一个人孤独的游荡在战场上的时候，你是否会有一种强烈的归属感，你会渴望生活在一个集体，一个友爱团结的集体里；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><br/><strong><font face="Times New Roman"></font></strong></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">当你独自为了尊严和荣誉奋斗的时候，你是否会想到当你为了家族的荣誉而做出自己的努力的并取得成功的时候，你的感觉是那样的自豪，这种感觉一定不同于你独自取得胜利时的感觉，这是一种真正的成功感和荣耀感；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">当你来到这个虚拟的网络空间的时候，你是否会有一种</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><font face="Times New Roman">“</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">海内存知己，天涯若比邻</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">的感觉，你是否愿意通过网络来结交许许多多真心的好朋友，结识到许多你不在网络就永远不会结识的好友，开心的交谈和愉快的娱乐，甚至生活中的互助与发展，成为你上网后得到的最珍贵的礼物，级别和装备算什么？一些虚拟的假的感觉而已，如果让我选择我只有朋友。</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">这就是家族的魅力！</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><p></p></span></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">家族不是几个人甚至几千个人简单的组合；家族不是一个虚幻的名号；家族不是用来达到持强凌弱的目的的工具，不是对骂争斗的后援，不是无聊的产物。</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">家族、是一个温暖的集体，是一个团结友爱的大家庭，是一个所有成员都能开开心心的娱乐，无拘无束的交谈，认认真真的爱护的集体；家族是一个需要全体成员付出温暖的爱心，付出真诚的友爱，付出无私的奉献，付出勇敢的努力的集体；家族是一个让所有成员都感到无比的自豪，无比的骄傲，无比的心动的集体，是一个让每一个成员都能自觉爱护其良好形象，自觉为之努力，自觉维护其荣誉的集体，家族的名号不是在外边用来被人骂的，因为做为她的一员，你会因此而感到羞愧，所以家族成员的最重要的是要有家族组织的荣誉，这是你加入家族最基本的前提。爱她，并愿意为她做出奉献。</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><p></p></span></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">因此家族的成功要有几个关键的要素：</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><br/><strong><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></strong></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">、有一个好的优秀的愿意无私奉献的有着良好形象的核心；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><strong><font face="Times New Roman">2</font></strong></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">、</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">有一群爱护家族并愿意付出的好的成员，他们的形象代表了一个家族的外部形象，所以他们的行为至关重要；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><strong><font face="Times New Roman">3</font></strong></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">、有一种友好亲切的环境，每一个成员都能无私大度的对待矛盾，都能相互的理解对方；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><strong><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></strong></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">、有一个真正的纪律观念，在代表家族形象的问题上纪律明确，对外一致，表现的不同凡响，不战而屈人之兵；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><br/><strong><font face="Times New Roman">5</font></strong></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';">、有一个不断创新的组织活动，活跃的组织会有不断的生机。</span></strong></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';"></span></strong></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';"></span></strong></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman';"></span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066;"><p></p></span></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">家族文化论</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">家族是什么，是由我们玩家自发成立并参与管理的一个网络群众组织。从第一个家族成立到现在，</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman">QQ</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">的家族早已过万，并出现了一些成功的家族。从某种角度上来说，家族已经成了</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman">QQ</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">与语音的结合体，很多玩家正是因为喜欢家族，喜欢家族的朋友才一直留在</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman">QQ</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">的。成功的家族必然有出色的文化，这是所有成功家族的共同点，这个贴就是要和大家讨论下家族文化的问题。</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">家族文化是什么？</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman">QQ</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">的家族都是由各类游戏玩家发起组织的，因此家族文化本质上也是一种娱乐。文化是家族生存的精神基础和上层建筑，只有有特色的家族文化才能指引家族走得更远。家族文化应该包括这几个方面的内容：</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><p></p></span></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">核心文化，这其实就是一个家族的整体定位问题。其实家族文化在家族没有成立就开始了，从酝酿家族名开始，管理员就应该给家族进行一个准确的定位，只有准确的定位并把这种定位提升到文化的层次上来，家族才能成功；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">竞技文化，游戏本身就是一种文化，网络游戏本来就有胜负之分，因此竞技文化是家族文化的重要内容之一；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">人文文化，这是相对于家族的竞技文化来说的，家族不能够只靠一些比赛打打杀杀来发展，还应该建立自己的人文文化，通过人文文化来提升家族的质量和层次。有了自己的家族文化，我们就应该把握家族文化的基本功能，利用家族文化来引导家族发展。家族文化的基本功能包括：</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">整合导向功能，这是家族文化最主要的作用，好的家族文化能对成员的思想行为起导向作用，同是也能对家族的整体发展和方向起导向作用，并能够提高家族的凝聚力。</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">教育激励功能，网络游戏的玩家三教九流无所不有，年龄的跨度也非常大，这也正是各家族和网络游戏的各大论坛天天争吵不停的原因。在这种一个复杂的发展环境下，家族一定要制定严格的规章制度来约束和教育自己的成员，同时家族和管理层和成员也要加强自身的素质修养，以自身的良好形象来教育和影响其它成员，提高家族成员的综合素质。</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">品牌辐射功能，和企业一样，家族文化形成并有了特色，它不仅会为内部传播影响成员的思想和行为，优秀的家族文化还会通过各种途径向外传播，最终形成家族的品牌效应，能让更多的玩家认可并加入家族。对家族文化的内容和功能有了认识，那么如何建设家族文化呢？我上人有些建议供大家参考。</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">首先，应该发展活跃的论坛文化。论坛是家族文化最重要的载体和表现形式，好的论坛往往代表了好的家族，家族的管理人员一定要努力营造一个良好的内部论坛。论坛不仅要有水手灌水，更要有高素质的写手写出精彩的文章让大家欣赏和交流。</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">其次，家族应该定期举办一些大型的活动吸引成员参加。这即包括各游戏竞赛活动，也应该包括各种征文活动或是成员聚会活动。家族要发展，好的玩家和写手同样重要，都应该重视和培养。这些活动既能提高大家的积极性，也能提高家族的向心力。</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">第三，应该培养些优秀的写手任论坛斑竹，论坛斑竹有责任把论坛搞活，经常写出精彩的文章给大家欣赏，担任起家族文化的建设工作；</span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman"><br/></font></span></strong><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><br/></span></b><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">最后，家族负责人一定要管理好家族的</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><font face="Times New Roman">QQ</font></span></strong><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:';">群，这是除论坛外家族成员交流的重要场所，一定不能让人发送些色情图片或是问题网址，这其中的利害关系相信大家都知道。对这种人，我一般认为是见一个开除一个的，绝不留情。</span></strong><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999;"><br/><p></p></span></strong></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"></p><p></p></span></strong><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; 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                                        </font>就是在一个服务器里不停地发招兵公告。<font face="Times New Roman"> </font><br/><font face="Times New Roman"> </font>注意<font face="Times New Roman"> </font>用这招你要有耐心，没有人来就不停的发。<font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font><br/><br/><font face="Times New Roman">2 </font>空战<font face="Times New Roman"> </font>就是用私聊的办法发招兵公告，就象轰炸一样，把广告发到每一个目标上。<font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font><br/><font face="Times New Roman"> </font>注意<font face="Times New Roman"> </font>这样是比较累的，不过这个办法很好用，一般都可以招到人，为了减少工作量，你要看明白那些是没有家族的才发。<font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font><br/><br/><font face="Times New Roman">3 </font>麻雀战<font face="Times New Roman"> </font>就是在每一个服务器发几个广告就走。<font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font><br/><font face="Times New Roman"> </font>注意<font face="Times New Roman"> </font>这招对家族的宣传有好处，因为这样，有很多人看见，想加入的自己会加入。<font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font><br/><br/><font face="Times New Roman">4 </font>地道战<font face="Times New Roman"> </font>就是对有些犹豫的人，先把他设为好友，建立了交往通道，一直等到他加入家族。<font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font><br/><font face="Times New Roman"> </font>注意<font face="Times New Roman"> </font>这个会让你以后在家族会有更多人认识你，你的声望会更高的哦 </strong><p><strong></strong></p></span></p><p><strong></strong></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">5 </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">心理战</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">你无事时，可以对其说，有家族吗，我送点装备给你们玩。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">注意</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">这样有些时候会有人加入的，但是，你说到要做到。而却，你要看你的装备够不够分。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">6 </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">围城战</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">有时，对一个目标，可以几个兄弟一起上，说动他加入家族。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">注意</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">一起上时，说话要小心一点。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">7 </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">亲情战</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">有时你可以把家族高位人员拉来招他，用亲情打动他加入家族。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">注意</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">最好一般对特别人才用，要不然，会打搅了各位管理的时间，他们都很忙啊。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">8 </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">倾城倾国战</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">就是对有些特定目标，如果他要装备，你可以给多一些他，有时给完也可以啊。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">注意</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">有点危险</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">有时你会一无所得的，</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">有些人是骗装备的啊</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                                        </font></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">，慎用。</span></b><font face="Times New Roman"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"></span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                        <p></p></span></font></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">团结的前提</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">----</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">理解和宽容</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">在虚拟世界交流</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">就是和现实有所不同</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">!</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">毕竟不是很方便</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">这样就容易产生些误会</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">!</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">因此更需要多点理解和信任</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">体谅与宽容</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">!</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">可以这样说</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">虚拟网络上的交流更能折射出一个人的品德与修养</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">!! </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">比如有人只是把号挂在那</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">(</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">人做其他事去了</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">),</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">而你此时向他发出了某邀请</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">你肯定是得不到任何答复的</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">你会为此误解他</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">有道理吗</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">?</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">值得吗</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">? </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">还有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">----</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">很多很多</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">----</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">难以一一列举</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                        <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">其实</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">虚拟世界里</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">你清高</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">你自大</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">你狂妄</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">甚至你虚伪</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">你欺骗</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">你破口骂人</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">别人也真正无奈何你</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">!</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">而我们大多数人都没有也永远不会这么做</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">!</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">不需要承担某后果却又能自觉地抵制不良言行</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">这不是最能折射你的个人修养吗</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">!! </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> </span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">其实</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">虚拟世界里</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">你即使辛勤地付出了</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">无私地奉献了，他们也没有得到任何实质性的回报</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">但你能说你不为他们的个人魅力所折服吗</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">!!</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">其实</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">虚拟世界里</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">你只需要一个态度</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">一个举动</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">抑或一句话</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">就可洞察一个人的操行</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">一个人的本质</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">!! </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">所以</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">当你用理解沟通情感时</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">用宽容冰释前嫌时</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">用真诚消弥误会时</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">你就为团结奠定了坚实的基础</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">!!</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">同时也向大家展示你崇高的个人情操</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">!! </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> </span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">总之</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">在虚拟的网络家族</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">需要的更多的是如老大的宽容</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">不管是活跃在线的朋友</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">还是默默捐金的弟兄</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">他们那种不求所有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">但求所为的精神是我社的灵魂</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">!</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">是永远值得我们学习和发扬的</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">!!</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p><font face="Times New Roman"></font></p></span></b></p><p><font face="Times New Roman"></font></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族发展的建议</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族首先要做到第一步聚集人气，下一步就是要向大家族、知名家族发展。但是怎么才能使家族建康发展呢？这个问题同样困饶着很多的家族管理员。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> </span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">我觉得要发展首先要扩大家族的知名度，作广告。作广告手法非常讲究，如某些家族经常在聊天室打出自己的家族如何如何，有意请怎么怎么加入等，这样的效果可以说是事倍功半。作广告要学会做活广告，首先要制定出家族主要游戏的主战场，让家族的人来游戏时都进入这个基地，还有规范家族每个人的游戏号，在前面冠以家族名，这样不但方便自己的人寻找朋友，而且还让其他人觉得这个家族是一个有规章制度，有人气，讲究团结的家族，让人主动加入家族这个大家庭。招这样的人才是招到对家族发展有真正帮助的人。家族还要经常举行一些活动，如架子家族内部友谊赛，友好家族友谊赛，增加家族成员的交流，加强家族内部的团结气氛，做到家族一家亲。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                        <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族要成为一个优秀家族就要内外同时发展。因为家族人数增加到一定的数量后，单凭家族管理员是很难做到全面管理面面俱到的，所以家族内部要成立一个由管理员领导的由若干人组成的工作管理小组。他们负责批准新人进入家族，家族装备的管理和分配，家族内部论坛的完善，家族成员的职位升降和家族内部的奖罚。大家上下齐心，才能把家族管理得井井有条。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                        <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族的规章制度要严格执行，家族成员做到不刷屏，不和其他家族吵架，以和为贵，以游戏服人，严禁家族任何成员口水，这样会极大的损害家族的形象。尽量杜绝这类事情发生，这样家族才能健康的发展和强大。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族应该积极组织家族精英多参加中游的各项家族活动，努力开创新的局面。如联系其他大家族举行对抗赛，进入论坛把家族的精彩文章和精华展现给其他家族观看和了解，把各家族最新的消息和动态带回家族论坛，有利于全家族成员对最新消息的学习和观摩。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">还有一点就是：我们家族成员一定要团结，团结起来力量大！</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b></p></span>

霸气╉魔法无边

<p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族管理篇</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">1</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、掌握权限的人应该以人为贵，而不看重职位的高低，成员才会兴起礼让之风；应该看重有一技之长的人，而不看重资历，这样成员才会兴起重科技之风。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">2</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、处于上位的人，应该采纳成员的意见，然后将意见付诸实施，成员就会感到如大旱逢雨。处于上位的</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">人，如不采纳成员意见，成员就会反抗他，家族就会乱。管理者要以信与让来对待成员，成员就会以隆重之礼来回报他。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">3</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、什么事情做好了，就称赞别人的功劳；什么事情做错了，就严格的责备自己。这样，人们就不会争功诿过，这样，人们的怨气就会迅速化除。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">4</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、管理人员容易相处，与成员打成一片，成员的事容易查知，这样的家族就用不着烦刑重法了，因为根本没有人去违反。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">5</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、用德育教育成员，用礼统一人们言行思想，亲近成员，用信义和成员交往，用恭敬的态度对待成员，成员自然会拥护你，支持你的工作。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">6</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、管理人员用言论来引导成员，用自己行动告诉成员应当禁止什么。所以管理人员说话时，应当考虑这话将产生什么结果；将采取行动时，就严密考察自己决定是不是还有什么毛病。如果这样，成员就会懂得，对自己的言行采取谨慎的态度。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">7</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、发号施令后成员都高兴，这就叫做政通人和。管理人员与成员相亲相爱，这就叫做博爱为仁。成员不索取自己应得的东西，管理人员却给了他们，这就叫做信。铲除家族祸害，这就叫做义。义</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">信</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">和</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">仁，是成就霸业的手段。那些想管理社团的人却缺乏这些手段，就成就不了事业。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">8</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、文武之道，一张一驰。用宽容温和的态度去教化别人，即使别人蛮横无理也不加以报复，有修养的君子就是这样。仗义直言，敢于拼死，虽死不悔，有正义的英雄是这样。君子待人和顺而不迁就，独立而不偏私，原则问题严厉，与人相处柔和，任何时候都不改变操守和志向。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">9</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、处于管理职位就应该提出有益建议，提出有益建议，就应该具体实行，实行了就应该有始有终。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">10</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、君子爱护别人，是用道德标准来爱的；那些不明大义的人爱护别人，才一味的迁就苟且。管理人员应该公平公正公开，不应该以私废公，使内外异法。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">11</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、广泛的学习，详细的询问，慎重的考虑，清楚的分辨，切实的实行，在工作中不断的总结</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">反省和改进。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">12</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、有了成绩不要占为己有，实施教化不要急于求成，已经犯过的错误不要再犯，说错了的话就不要巧言饰非，不善于听取别人意见就不要自作聪明，干什么事都不要拖拖拉拉。管理人员如果能够做到这六点，就能够安身而且获得荣誉。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">13</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、管理人员决不能骄纵自大，成员决不能犯上做乱，破坏次序，与众人相处时，决不能意气相争。戒除骄</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">乱</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">争。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">14</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、成员有所失就用礼义相断，使其得宜；对管理人员则考察其政绩；对有过错者，就明正其罚；树立仁的典型；讲究礼让。一切都向成员昭示：家族有其必须共同遵守的规则。说违背规则，有权限的将因之而去位，普通成员将因之而受罚，这就是理想的家族。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">浅谈家族之温暖温馨</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">论坛水龙前，各路写手灌水淹。数道闪光彻寰宇，声声霹雳憾心间。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">康庄大道憧憬看，航程酣战中游牵。喜得逐浪管理飓，悠悠挚情冲云天。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">(</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">法</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">)</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">卢梭曾讲过：温存的友情和仁慈的心在我们遭受痛苦的时候能安慰我们。即便在我们欢乐的时候，如果没有人同我们分享欢乐的话，我们也会感到孤寂和苦闷的。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">一个家族要做强做大，靠什么呢？大家都会回答：靠管理。其实</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">管理</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">二字是什么呢？特别是虚拟网络家族的管理和现实单位的管理有着截然的不同和天壤之别。大家都认为招收家族成员是家族管理的重中之重，其实错矣；招收固然重要，但招一个走两个而导致家族成员比例下降是很多家族面临的难题。。。。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">究竟是什么导致家族成员人数增加不上去呢？四个字：温暖温馨。点滴的温暖、质感的温馨本身会吸引众多的有识之士加盟，但它的主要作用远非如此，如果说人天生有一种归属和安全需要的话，那么，温暖和温馨正是归属感和安全感的可靠支柱。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">海内存知己，天涯若比邻</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">，正是温暖温馨所折射出的写照。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">由此可以看出，家族的温暖温馨是何等的重要</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">…… </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">试想而知，当你遭遇挫折而感到愤闷抑郁的时候，在论坛的一席倾诉可以使你得到疏导，否则这种积郁会使人致病。温暖温馨的问候可以治疗你的心病，在论坛尽情倾诉你的忧愁与欢乐，恐惧与希望，猜疑与烦恼，那沉重地压在你心头的一切，通过温暖温馨的肩头而被分担了。因为，除了这以外，没有任何一种药物可以治疗心病。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">就事而言，其实一个温馨的生日祝福帖，一个热情的家族欢迎帖，一点简单的电脑小知识或其它知识讲解，一次小规模的游戏竞赛，哪怕一篇粗糙的文字游戏接龙都会于无声处显示出社团的温暖温馨。。。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族的温暖温馨是一面镜子，你在镜子这面可以照见你自己，从而对自己采取这样或那样的态度；家族的温暖温馨是一面镜子，它在社团的人员态度上折射自己，从而反映问题应改进那里</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">…… </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">大千世界，芸芸众生，网络家族，趣向横生，无论家族大小都在艰难跋涉，上下求索。是谁在支撑，又是谁在奠基，是每个马甲后活生生的人，为何一点点简单体现温暖温馨的事不去做或做不好呢，难道真的在飘渺的网络世界里，每个马甲都那么渺小、那么孤单。生命需要慰籍，生命需要温暖。让我们在同声共振的友爱之中一起维护和打造温暖温馨的网上家园，一起歌唱生命的美好！</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">温暖温馨大宣扬，团结友爱都爱家。驰骋论坛展理想，其乐融融中游强。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">游戏天地你我他，论坛文化源远长。温馨祝福心情畅，江河万里日月昌。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">论坛里的生活之道</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">我们未曾谋面，但有个爱的空间。论坛是一个交流、倾听和表达的地方，大多数人都希望多交几个朋友</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">多学一点东西，抒发一点心情，引起一点共鸣，无论是丰富生活也好，增长见闻也好，排遣寂寞也好，唯一不能缺少的就是真诚。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">一</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">尊重别人</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">尊重，即是尊重别人的劳动，看了别人的帖，能回的尽量回，尊重别人亦会得到别人的尊重，这是一个简单的道理。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">二．求同存异</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">世界是丰富多彩，人的观点也千奇百怪。看见不同的观点，可以不认同，但不必太计较。看见别人表达不同的观点，也不必非要争个明白。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">三</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">懂得感谢</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">感谢别人对你的关注，感谢别人提给你的意见。怀有一颗感激的心，将会赢得同样的回报。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">四．回避矛盾</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">有时候，我们无法避免善意和恶意。就象生活中一样。遇见怀有恶意的人，最好的方法就是一笑而过，置之不理。是非曲直，旁人的眼光是清澈的。陷进是非之中，只会降低自己的品味和身份。况且时间是最好的证人．</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">五</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">通俗易懂</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">写的文字太深奥，只适合三五知己之间的交流。，引起的共鸣毕竟很少，想要和大家真正的交流，就要考虑到众人的阅读习惯和接受能力。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">六．雪中送碳</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">很多新人，文字很一般。但他们是最需要关心和鼓励的。他们会记得你的关注，并给你同样的关心。交流没有界限，大家的内心其实是平等的。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">时光如同一条河流，匆匆流逝，总有一天我们会悄悄离去，回想起来，曾经度过的这段日子，也许是最美丽的。相识是缘份，相别后亦无后悔。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">为家族而战，捍卫家族之威！</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">我们都来自五湖四海，在一个于对谁都没任何利益的前提走到一起来了。于此！我们无悔选择了霸气，是所谓我们共同的一个家，在此我们聊天发帖，谈笑风生，乐也无穷。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">我们要发展，我们要强大，我们要提高知名度，所以必须向外界展示我们的实力与风彩。家族灌水，论坛发帖，内外赛事都是我们在中游演示力量的途径。鸿鹄之志，焉能低翔？</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">人行江湖籍于义，处家族籍于信，内外对抗籍勇智！团内荣誉高于一切！所以人不可无志。对于外部赛事，我们还是一致高呼：友谊高于一切，输赢亦无所谓。没错，我们是要这种精神。大战输了，论坛里去找出各种借口，试想多看这样的结论几次会有如何感受？谁都不用强辩有多么好的超凡精神，如是即是无荣誉感之人。阿</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">Q</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">尚且有上进心，闹革命。我们难道能行尸走肉，放任人家宰割？再者，经常遣低手上阵，长期如此还有人会与我们比赛吗？闯荡传奇我们还有意义吗？</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b></p>

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霸气╉魔法无边

<p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族管理篇</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">1</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、掌握权限的人应该以人为贵，而不看重职位的高低，成员才会兴起礼让之风；应该看重有一技之长的人，而不看重资历，这样成员才会兴起重科技之风。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">2</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、处于上位的人，应该采纳成员的意见，然后将意见付诸实施，成员就会感到如大旱逢雨。处于上位的</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">人，如不采纳成员意见，成员就会反抗他，家族就会乱。管理者要以信与让来对待成员，成员就会以隆重之礼来回报他。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">3</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、什么事情做好了，就称赞别人的功劳；什么事情做错了，就严格的责备自己。这样，人们就不会争功诿过，这样，人们的怨气就会迅速化除。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">4</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、管理人员容易相处，与成员打成一片，成员的事容易查知，这样的家族就用不着烦刑重法了，因为根本没有人去违反。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">5</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、用德育教育成员，用礼统一人们言行思想，亲近成员，用信义和成员交往，用恭敬的态度对待成员，成员自然会拥护你，支持你的工作。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">6</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、管理人员用言论来引导成员，用自己行动告诉成员应当禁止什么。所以管理人员说话时，应当考虑这话将产生什么结果；将采取行动时，就严密考察自己决定是不是还有什么毛病。如果这样，成员就会懂得，对自己的言行采取谨慎的态度。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">7</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、发号施令后成员都高兴，这就叫做政通人和。管理人员与成员相亲相爱，这就叫做博爱为仁。成员不索取自己应得的东西，管理人员却给了他们，这就叫做信。铲除家族祸害，这就叫做义。义</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">信</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">和</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">仁，是成就霸业的手段。那些想管理社团的人却缺乏这些手段，就成就不了事业。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">8</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、文武之道，一张一驰。用宽容温和的态度去教化别人，即使别人蛮横无理也不加以报复，有修养的君子就是这样。仗义直言，敢于拼死，虽死不悔，有正义的英雄是这样。君子待人和顺而不迁就，独立而不偏私，原则问题严厉，与人相处柔和，任何时候都不改变操守和志向。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">9</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、处于管理职位就应该提出有益建议，提出有益建议，就应该具体实行，实行了就应该有始有终。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">10</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、君子爱护别人，是用道德标准来爱的；那些不明大义的人爱护别人，才一味的迁就苟且。管理人员应该公平公正公开，不应该以私废公，使内外异法。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">11</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、广泛的学习，详细的询问，慎重的考虑，清楚的分辨，切实的实行，在工作中不断的总结</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">反省和改进。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">12</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、有了成绩不要占为己有，实施教化不要急于求成，已经犯过的错误不要再犯，说错了的话就不要巧言饰非，不善于听取别人意见就不要自作聪明，干什么事都不要拖拖拉拉。管理人员如果能够做到这六点，就能够安身而且获得荣誉。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">13</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、管理人员决不能骄纵自大，成员决不能犯上做乱，破坏次序，与众人相处时，决不能意气相争。戒除骄</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">乱</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">争。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">14</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、成员有所失就用礼义相断，使其得宜；对管理人员则考察其政绩；对有过错者，就明正其罚；树立仁的典型；讲究礼让。一切都向成员昭示：家族有其必须共同遵守的规则。说违背规则，有权限的将因之而去位，普通成员将因之而受罚，这就是理想的家族。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">浅谈家族之温暖温馨</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">论坛水龙前，各路写手灌水淹。数道闪光彻寰宇，声声霹雳憾心间。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">康庄大道憧憬看，航程酣战中游牵。喜得逐浪管理飓，悠悠挚情冲云天。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">(</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">法</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">)</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">卢梭曾讲过：温存的友情和仁慈的心在我们遭受痛苦的时候能安慰我们。即便在我们欢乐的时候，如果没有人同我们分享欢乐的话，我们也会感到孤寂和苦闷的。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">一个家族要做强做大，靠什么呢？大家都会回答：靠管理。其实</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">管理</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">二字是什么呢？特别是虚拟网络家族的管理和现实单位的管理有着截然的不同和天壤之别。大家都认为招收家族成员是家族管理的重中之重，其实错矣；招收固然重要，但招一个走两个而导致家族成员比例下降是很多家族面临的难题。。。。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">究竟是什么导致家族成员人数增加不上去呢？四个字：温暖温馨。点滴的温暖、质感的温馨本身会吸引众多的有识之士加盟，但它的主要作用远非如此，如果说人天生有一种归属和安全需要的话，那么，温暖和温馨正是归属感和安全感的可靠支柱。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">海内存知己，天涯若比邻</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">，正是温暖温馨所折射出的写照。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">由此可以看出，家族的温暖温馨是何等的重要</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">…… </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">试想而知，当你遭遇挫折而感到愤闷抑郁的时候，在论坛的一席倾诉可以使你得到疏导，否则这种积郁会使人致病。温暖温馨的问候可以治疗你的心病，在论坛尽情倾诉你的忧愁与欢乐，恐惧与希望，猜疑与烦恼，那沉重地压在你心头的一切，通过温暖温馨的肩头而被分担了。因为，除了这以外，没有任何一种药物可以治疗心病。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">就事而言，其实一个温馨的生日祝福帖，一个热情的家族欢迎帖，一点简单的电脑小知识或其它知识讲解，一次小规模的游戏竞赛，哪怕一篇粗糙的文字游戏接龙都会于无声处显示出社团的温暖温馨。。。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族的温暖温馨是一面镜子，你在镜子这面可以照见你自己，从而对自己采取这样或那样的态度；家族的温暖温馨是一面镜子，它在社团的人员态度上折射自己，从而反映问题应改进那里</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">…… </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">大千世界，芸芸众生，网络家族，趣向横生，无论家族大小都在艰难跋涉，上下求索。是谁在支撑，又是谁在奠基，是每个马甲后活生生的人，为何一点点简单体现温暖温馨的事不去做或做不好呢，难道真的在飘渺的网络世界里，每个马甲都那么渺小、那么孤单。生命需要慰籍，生命需要温暖。让我们在同声共振的友爱之中一起维护和打造温暖温馨的网上家园，一起歌唱生命的美好！</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">温暖温馨大宣扬，团结友爱都爱家。驰骋论坛展理想，其乐融融中游强。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">游戏天地你我他，论坛文化源远长。温馨祝福心情畅，江河万里日月昌。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">论坛里的生活之道</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">我们未曾谋面，但有个爱的空间。论坛是一个交流、倾听和表达的地方，大多数人都希望多交几个朋友</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">多学一点东西，抒发一点心情，引起一点共鸣，无论是丰富生活也好，增长见闻也好，排遣寂寞也好，唯一不能缺少的就是真诚。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">一</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">尊重别人</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">尊重，即是尊重别人的劳动，看了别人的帖，能回的尽量回，尊重别人亦会得到别人的尊重，这是一个简单的道理。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">二．求同存异</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">世界是丰富多彩，人的观点也千奇百怪。看见不同的观点，可以不认同，但不必太计较。看见别人表达不同的观点，也不必非要争个明白。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">三</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">懂得感谢</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">感谢别人对你的关注，感谢别人提给你的意见。怀有一颗感激的心，将会赢得同样的回报。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p></span></b></p><p><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">论坛里的生活之道</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">我们未曾谋面，但有个爱的空间。论坛是一个交流、倾听和表达的地方，大多数人都希望多交几个朋友</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">多学一点东西，抒发一点心情，引起一点共鸣，无论是丰富生活也好，增长见闻也好，排遣寂寞也好，唯一不能缺少的就是真诚。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">一</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">尊重别人</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">尊重，即是尊重别人的劳动，看了别人的帖，能回的尽量回，尊重别人亦会得到别人的尊重，这是一个简单的道理。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">二．求同存异</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">世界是丰富多彩，人的观点也千奇百怪。看见不同的观点，可以不认同，但不必太计较。看见别人表达不同的观点，也不必非要争个明白。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">三</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">懂得感谢</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">感谢别人对你的关注，感谢别人提给你的意见。怀有一颗感激的心，将会赢得同样的回报。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">论坛里的生活之道</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">我们未曾谋面，但有个爱的空间。论坛是一个交流、倾听和表达的地方，大多数人都希望多交几个朋友</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">多学一点东西，抒发一点心情，引起一点共鸣，无论是丰富生活也好，增长见闻也好，排遣寂寞也好，唯一不能缺少的就是真诚。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">一</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">尊重别人</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">尊重，即是尊重别人的劳动，看了别人的帖，能回的尽量回，尊重别人亦会得到别人的尊重，这是一个简单的道理。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">二．求同存异</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">世界是丰富多彩，人的观点也千奇百怪。看见不同的观点，可以不认同，但不必太计较。看见别人表达不同的观点，也不必非要争个明白。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">三</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">懂得感谢</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">感谢别人对你的关注，感谢别人提给你的意见。怀有一颗感激的心，将会赢得同样的回报。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">四．回避矛盾</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">有时候，我们无法避免善意和恶意。就象生活中一样。遇见怀有恶意的人，最好的方法就是一笑而过，置之不理。是非曲直，旁人的眼光是清澈的。陷进是非之中，只会降低自己的品味和身份。况且时间是最好的证人．</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">五</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">通俗易懂</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">写的文字太深奥，只适合三五知己之间的交流。，引起的共鸣毕竟很少，想要和大家真正的交流，就要考虑到众人的阅读习惯和接受能力。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">六．雪中送碳</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">很多新人，文字很一般。但他们是最需要关心和鼓励的。他们会记得你的关注，并给你同样的关心。交流没有界限，大家的内心其实是平等的。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">时光如同一条河流，匆匆流逝，总有一天我们会悄悄离去，回想起来，曾经度过的这段日子，也许是最美丽的。相识是缘份，相别后亦无后悔。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">为家族而战，捍卫家族之威！</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">我们都来自五湖四海，在一个于对谁都没任何利益的前提走到一起来了。于此！我们无悔选择了霸气，是所谓我们共同的一个家，在此我们聊天发帖，谈笑风生，乐也无穷。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">我们要发展，我们要强大，我们要提高知名度，所以必须向外界展示我们的实力与风彩。家族灌水，论坛发帖，内外赛事都是我们在中游演示力量的途径。鸿鹄之志，焉能低翔？</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">人行江湖籍于义，处家族籍于信，内外对抗籍勇智！团内荣誉高于一切！所以人不可无志。对于外部赛事，我们还是一致高呼：友谊高于一切，输赢亦无所谓。没错，我们是要这种精神。大战输了，论坛里去找出各种借口，试想多看这样的结论几次会有如何感受？谁都不用强辩有多么好的超凡精神，如是即是无荣誉感之人。阿</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">Q</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">尚且有上进心，闹革命。我们难道能行尸走肉，放任人家宰割？再者，经常遣低手上阵，长期如此还有人会与我们比赛吗？闯荡传奇我们还有意义吗？</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b></p>

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霸气╉魔法无边

<p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">论坛人气问题的看法</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">一个成熟完整的论坛，除了有很旺的人气之外，还应该有一定的</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">ID</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">配置的。这个配置应当像电脑的配置一样，应该有多大的硬盘，多大的内存，多快的</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">CPU</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">，多好的显卡。总之要搭配的有很好的实用性；有较高的性价比；有看起来尚还壮观的阵营，有可靠的技术指标和过硬的实际使用性能。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">我想，可以先从个人的性格方面来考虑一下：</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">1.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">需要</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">30%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的急性子，紧跟时尚、追踪热点、雷厉风行，有爆发力，可以用来打先锋；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">2.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">需要</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">50%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的慢性子，遇事不慌，在他们眼中天塌下来有高个子顶着。爆发力不足柔韧性有余，适合精雕细刻和激战完毕的善后工作，可以用来作后盾；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">3.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">需要</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">20%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的混合性格，可以作为中介部队。可以当做沙子掺在急性子和慢性子中间，给慢性子加鞭，给急性子后缀，作为填充剂和润滑剂使用。用以使材质均布，降解急、慢块垒，均匀内应力。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">第二个要考虑的是写手的队伍状况：</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">1.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">应该有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">8%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的大碗。这是论坛中的鲜花，写手中的领军人物，众人瞻目的英雄，众</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">ID</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">崇拜的偶像；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">2.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">应该有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">25%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的主流写手。这是论坛中的绿叶，像美丽的花园一样，这是论坛阵营中的骨干力量；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">3.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">应该有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">22%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的一般写手。这是论坛的青草，虽然平凡弱小，但给花园增色不少；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">4.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">应该有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">35%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的灌水队伍。这是论坛的鲜花和绿叶的啦啦队，是捧红偶像的主力军，正是因为他们的欣赏，才使得</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">1</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">2</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">3</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">队伍中的写手具有良好的自信和展示、表演的欲望；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">5.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">应该有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">10%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的潜水者。这一部分人也许是很忙没时间加入论坛，所以只把来论坛看文章当作休闲、欣赏；也许是性格内向，只喜爱当个观众，默默的观看明星的表演。虽然他们并不发言，但是他们的存在使得大家的贴子的点击量增加，他们是论坛的无名英雄。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">第三个要考虑的是写手的酸碱度搭配：</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">1.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">应该有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">20%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">酸性写手：这部分写手赋诗填词写情书，风花雪月，卿卿我我，凄凄惨惨，给论坛中增加了不少的柔情蜜意，有柔化论坛的作用；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">2.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">应该有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">40%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">碱性写手：这部分写手慷慨正义、情绪激昂，鞭辟时政、指点江山，大有家族当今万户侯的姿态，有钢化论坛的趋势；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">3.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">应该有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">30%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的酸碱均衡的写手：这部分写手麻木不仁，比较中庸，在论坛中相当于给酸碱写手掺沙子，是论坛的固化剂，有稳定论坛的作用。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">第四个要考虑的是写手的文字风格状况：</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">1.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">应该有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">25%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的正人君子：正义、道德、传统的演讲是他们的拿手好戏，是论坛中的中坚骨干力量；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">2.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">应该有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">10%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的愤青：有一点热血，有一点激情，是论坛中可爱的亮色；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">3.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">应该有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">20%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的痞子：有一点的搞笑，有些许的幽默，是论坛中的调味剂；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">4.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">应该有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">5%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的狂人：有一些张扬，有一些嚣张，是论坛中的高光，也是众人眼中的聚焦点；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">5.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">应该有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">5%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的砖手：这一部分人在论坛中如同美国在世界上的感觉一样，自认为老大，转爱扣理，专门修理看着不入法眼的马甲或文字，充当的是论坛警察的作用，他们的自我感觉是主持正义；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">6.</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">应该有</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">35%</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的基本群众：都是演员了，谁来看戏呢？当然是群众了！不表演的演员和基本群众会给演员营造一个或热情、或肃穆的气氛，以供演员表现。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">不断努力，加快家族的发展</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">----</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">致各家族成员</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">各位家族成员：</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族的发展工作，在最近一段时间取得了新的突破，家族人数急剧上升。我们的目标是要将家族四个军团都发展壮大起来，ＩＳ人数达2</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">00</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">位左右。这离我们的目标还有很长一段距离。为此，我们应该站在家族全面发展的高度，切实抓好两个方面的工作。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">一、狠抓宣传发动</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族的宣传工作是家族树立形象，扩大影响的关键和保证。在这重要的发展阶段，家族的管理层以及广大家族成员，要积极做好家族的宣传工作。在玉溪中宣传家族的形象，是每一位家族成员应履行的义务，发一条广告信息，占用大家的时候并不多，但是当前家族存在的问题是极大多数的成员对家族的宣传工作既不重视，也不关心。面对这些问题，我们应该端正态度，及时改正过来。当然有部分成员是值得大家学习的，他们的努力帮助了，是值得大家学习和肯定的。在家族发展的关键时期，家族希望全体成员能够同心协力，抓住机遇，共同为建立强大的家族而努力。家族成员在游戏中，在空闲的时候，可以大张旗鼓地对家族的广告进行宣传，在游戏中形成良好的发展氛围，为进一步确立家族良好形象，提供有力的宣传保障</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">二、切实抓好家族的招揽工作</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">在加强家族宣传力度后，家族的招揽工作仍然是家族发展的重中之重。家族可以大胆地说，假如在这方面，你拥有过人之处，那么你必将是进入社团管理层的人选之一。很多社团成员在加入社团之后，认为有管理能力就可以胜任管理员职务。当然有部分拥有丰富家族管理经验的成员，确实是可以，但是我们需要看到的是家族成员通过努力，扎根家族第一线，从家族的宣传、招揽、参加论坛建设等工作开始做起，先树立好正确的家族态度。一个人的力量是相当很有限的，但是假如我们可以齐心协心，目标一致，始终一如既往地向着我们的努力目标，那么我们的发展源泉和动力是非常强大的。家族的招揽工作虽然是辛苦，但是当看到家族进一步凝聚了更多的游戏精英和更多的朋友，这些都是值得的。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">各位家族成员，在新的发展阶段，作为管理员，我深感责任重大。家族强大了，这是家族每一位成员的骄傲，家族管理层人员都将竭尽全力确保社团稳定和谐发展，但最重要是能够得到大家的支持和理解，我相信在大家的共同努力下，家族将取得更辉煌的成绩！家族的明天一定会更美好！！</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">网络家族是个虚拟世界，但也有很多与现实类似甚至超越的地方。毋庸违言的是，也有它的特性：网络就是网络，决不能代替现实！诚如有人说的一样</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">网络毕竟较之现实有一定距离；我不上班就没钱吃饭，更别说上网了</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">。这是一个大实话！可以想象，饭都没吃了，哪能上网？</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">由此，我想说明的是：</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">1</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、家族的任何人，不管是管理员，还是其他管理者，或者是你、是我、是他，都必须先解决吃饭问题，也就是现实问题，才有时间有精力来网络和大家相聚。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">2</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、网络管理不像现实中那样有或多或少的报酬，可以支撑、刺激、鼓励人来全心全意做，这也是家族的特性之一。那么，对家族的管理，就纯粹是抱着对家族的热爱靠个人的无私付出才奉献了自己大量的时间、智慧、心血。这样一来，社团管理的成效优劣就与某个管理员的个人学识、特长、时间等因素来决定了。如同现实一样，人各有所长所短，极端的例子，有的科学天才是生活的白痴。结合到家族，对有的管理人员而言，他一直是家族或网络比较活跃的人物，以前可以常常在论坛看到其精美的帖子。可一旦担任家族管理员，很难这样了。这对喜欢论坛的人来说，未尝不是一个损失；对他自己而言，也同样是无所适从，肯定有他的苦衷，这何尝又不是种痛苦！</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">3</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、我们大家是否都能换位思考一下：如果换成你在管理员的位置，你会做得怎么样？你就担保一定比谁做得好吗？公平地说，若真的能够面面俱到，能够井井有条，能够战无不胜，能够创造奇迹，那这样的人才他一定没有精力把时间花费在网络，来经营家族，他肯定在现实中驰骋疆场，建构自己的财富王国！</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">另外谈谈关于家族基层管理人员的问题，我以为，看一个人，主要看他的为人、能力以及对家族的贡献，尽量不求全责备，甚至可以忽略小节。不管他是否兼任了别的家族职务或曾经退出过本家族再回来而继续重用或享受元老待遇的不是绝无仅有，过去多，将来也估计会存在这种现象。里面有客观或主观的原因，但不管怎样，不得不承认的是，这些人曾经是将来也可能会是优秀的家族精英人才。家族因为他们在逐步发展，因为他们的存在而越来越精彩！</span></b></p>

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<p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">如果你热爱家族，关心论坛</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">我想，每个热爱论坛的朋友都在思考这样一个问题，什么样的论坛才是我们灵魂理想的栖息地，我们自身应该如何为通常被我们称之为</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的论坛增添绚丽的色彩。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">一个好的论坛应该具有海一般的胸怀，这样的胸怀不是指可以任意越过原则底线的海纳百川，而是说应该有欢畅地接纳各种河流的宏大胸襟。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">不可否认每个成功的论坛都有它的中流砥柱，有它经过大浪淘沙沉淀的金子。在新一轮浪头打来的时候，如何不使原有的金子流失并过滤出新的晶莹就成了论坛兴旺的关键。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">每个曾经醉心于论坛的朋友都有过自己旖旎的时光，也有意兴阑珊的时刻。遗憾的是，似乎每一个论坛都是铁打的营盘，流水的兵。新人尚绿酒初尝浅，老友却醉解兰舟去。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">长于春梦几多时，散似秋云无觅处。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">成了所有论坛的宿命。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">深刻地思索这其中的原因，不免又要上升到人性的高度。有统计表明，人的一生中有过较为密切交往的朋友不会超过</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">90</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">个，把之用在虚拟世界中也许同样合适。因为我们愿意接纳的朋友是有限的，于是，我们宁愿看一个老友寥寥数笔的聊天贴，也不要欣赏一个新人用心灵谱写的优美乐章，我们本能地排斥那些涌入的浪花。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">用</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">网络时代的代沟</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">这一新名词可以进一步说明这种现象，这个代沟与年龄无关，只与你接触网络的时间有关。就像现实生活中，不同年龄层次的人在卡拉</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">OK</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">会选择不同的歌曲，我们总认为我们那个时代留下的歌声最美，而对另一个时代的声音知之甚少。事实上，每个时代都有自己醉人的旋律，只是我们拒绝与之共鸣。为此，我们的心弦就错过了无数次时代脉搏的爱抚。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">是不是见不到熟悉的名字即使在自己家里也会感到陌生？是不是我们来论坛的目的就是为了看几个老朋友做了些什么，而不是来欣赏优美的文字和彼此醉心地交流的？是不是论坛里只有一些老面孔就会成为伊甸园？答案当然是否定的，老友的淡出与创作源泉的消耗成正比，而一个人热情的消退就会感染另一个人，两个人就会带动一批人。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">惜春常怕花开早，何况落红无数</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">，于是这波人都会慢慢处于游离状态，正所谓：</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">门隔花深旧梦游，夕阳无语燕归愁</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">，时而到访也只是暗自发些今不如昔的感慨。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">如果我们能热情拥抱那些扑面的浪花，并欢快地嬉戏其中，结果就会两样。新朋友会带来新的动力和灵感，当我们用同样殷切的目光注视他们，也同样会见到璀璨的火花。而对于一个初到论坛的新人，老坛友一声亲切的问候和热情的鼓励会让他们拥有持续的温暖，甚至铭记一生，同时也能促使他们迅速融入。当然这也是有选择的，我们可以只对那些真正热爱论坛、具有基本素质并乐于参与的朋友伸出友谊之手，而对那些自以为是、孤芳自赏的人予以冷漠，因为懂得投桃报李正是我们所期待的论坛里的朋友应该具有的基本素质。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">希望每一位把论坛当</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的朋友都能把自己当成这里的主人，而且热情好客，因为只有这里绿荫的茂密才能更好地酝酿我们的雨季；也希望每一个初来论坛的朋友都能够迅速适应你所到环境的氛围，用热情回报于热情，因为充分展现自己美丽的同时，也是最动人、最令彼此忘我的时刻。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">希望每一位朋友都能以版主的心态来对待论坛，如此，我们可爱的家园就是用金子铸成的。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        <p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族招兵三忌</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族的发展需要不断招收新成员，但在招人中常会出现各种情况，在此说说自己的三点体会，望能促进我社的扩军工作。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">第一、其它家族玩家的慎招</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">因为其它家族玩家往往充满着傲气，经常会出现退家族现象。一般这类成员的难留，除非对家族有着较深的感情了。技术越高越难留，所以其它家族成员不招为好。不如招些三举以下的，有助于提高家族人气，这类成员一般比较忠心，这类人一般只会潜心苦练游戏，配合也会慢慢提上来的，对提高家族的游戏氛围有积极作用，是发展家族的最好选择。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">第二、要装备者不招</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">入家族是为了装备，一张口就装备的不招。一般这类人都非常自傲，觉得自己值多少装备，这类人一般实力并不强；有些则是为装备死为装备亡，为了装备到处行骗。加家族总的要坚持一个自愿原则，强摘的瓜不甜。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">第三、素质低下者不招</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">拒绝不文明的成员加入。有些人虽有实力，但品德方面非常恶劣，别为了提高家族实力就不顾家族形象。遇到这类成员第一选择是警告或教育，无效则开除。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue;"><br/><br style="mso-special-character: line-break;"/><br style="mso-special-character: line-break;"/></span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">族长如何管理家族中的能人才子</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">任何一个家族，总有一些素质好、能力强的精英。这些人士，或宣传工作得力，或招兵贡献突出，或组织赛事拿手、或管理下属有度，都属于家族的顶梁柱，属于家族的</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">能人才子</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">。由于他们对家族发展的成绩和贡献，就显得地位重，作用大、影响力强，有时候可能显得不好管理。作为族长，这些能人是非驾驭好不可的，因为他们成绩突出，乃众目所瞩，管理的好与坏牵涉到其作用的发挥，关系着家族的兴衰成败。我个人认为，要领导好这些能人，关键是要关心爱护他们，因人制宜，刚柔并济。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">一、</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">立威而不施威</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">兵法云：将威而令行。威严和威信是掌门人行使职权的基础和前提。没有威严，指令难行；没有威信，属下离心。一是通过自己的个人修养，彰显高洁的品的和高尚的人格，给部署做出表率，德高才能望众，就像电影中雷老虎所说的：要以德服人。二是靠一身正气，办事秉公果断，干净利落，赢得家族成员的拥戴；三是以才立威，让能人才子诚服你的学识和才能，诚服你的多谋善断，因为有能力的人总是佩服比他们更有能力的人。四是以绩立威，在管理中充分显露才智，在家族建设中创出令人瞩目的成绩，以绩服人，树立威信。有了上述几点，帅旗迎风飘扬，能人才子们自然会拥至旗下，积极性自然会被调动起来；族长老大，德才兼备者居之。若是一个家族的族长既无德又无才，我看还是自动让贤，主动卷铺盖下岗，免得成员们指指戳戳、品头论足罢。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">各家族都有自己的规章制度和帮规帮纪。为了严格规章制度，整肃社团作风，族长在重大和原则问题上适当发发脾气、实施威严是必要的，但是大家在五湖四海中聚到一起来，又不是行军作战，大可不必动不动就训斥和处罚，尤其是对那些门派中的能人，更不能随便施威，因为这些人往往是一些清高自傲、自尊心比较强和爱面子的人，若是引发抵触情绪，产生的消极作用毋庸多言了，此乃不施威。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">二、关爱而不偏爱</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">现代管理注重人文精神和柔性化，关爱作为一种领导方法，越来越受到管理者们的高度重视。族长对能人们要有足够的关爱，可以加强与他们的沟通，借以融洽相互之间的关系，增进彼此的理解和友谊，激发他们的积极性和创造性。关爱是关心。每逢能人的生日，借机开个房间举办一场生日</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">patty</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">友谊赛，会使其感动不已，细微之处，充分体现了族长的兄弟情愫；关爱是高看。遇到棘手的问题，道一句还是请你出马罢会使其干劲倍增，关键时候想到能人，只有器重的掌门人才有如此见识；关爱是帮助。能人们总有遇到困难和不顺心的时候，族长要学会时刻伸出援助之手，困难之际拉一把，会使下属们难以忘情的；关爱是爱护。人非圣贤，孰能无过？当他们不经意犯了错误时，族长的一句自责：</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">关键在我，我也有责任</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">的话语充分体现了爱护下属的殷殷之情</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">…</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">总之，要关爱就要体现族长的大度、宽容、理解、尊重，通过关爱能人们会有深深的知遇感慨，能够更加自觉的为你出力，正所谓：士为知己者死也</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">~~ </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">关爱却不能偏爱。关爱要适度，过度则是偏爱，偏爱便会害莫大焉。偏爱是带着有色眼睛看问题，偏爱是被感情所左右，偏爱带有极大的片面性，会引发全体成员的厌恶。明明是豆腐渣，偏偏看成一朵花；明明他犯了错误却听之任之，偏爱成了袒护，成了放纵，这样的掌门人会使自己的威信丧失殆尽，使下属们感到寒心，长此以往将形成恶性循环，会葬送了辛辛苦苦打下的打好江山。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">三、</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">体谅而不原谅</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族中的能人才子们成绩骄人，自赢得了领导层的表扬和帮友们的尊重。春风得意马蹄急啊！若是把持不好，很容易迷失自己。很多家族中确有这样的能人罢，他们居功自傲、目空一切；他们咄咄逼人、盛气凌人，他们孤芳自赏、唯我独尊，他们飘飘然、混混然，不知其所以然，规章制度在他们眼中都是形同虚设，说些别人不敢说得话，办些别人不敢办得事</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">….</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">因此，族长老大一定要头脑清醒，冷静分析，认真对待。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">要体谅他们是人不是神，都存在人性的弱点和劣根性，难免会有不良的表现和说错话办错事的时候，对此族长既不能全盘否定他们的成绩和能力，更不能因小失大把他们一棍子打死，我想只要通过合适的场合和环境适当的加以引导和提出批评意见，一切问题都可迎刃而解。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">要不原谅。对于能人们的思想和行为出格，要根据他们各自不同的心理和性格特点，选择合适的时机和场合进行严肃的批评和教育，该处分的绝不手软，该惩罚的当仁不让，决不因感情和面子而姑息迁就，有章必循，有错必究，才能使他们正确认识和对待自己，从而放下包袱，轻装前进。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">四、信任而不放任</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">能人们是家族里的骨干和精英，给予充分的信任是有效使用和驾驭他们的必要前提。族长首先要对他们敢于压担子。对于对于诸如招兵、宣传、组织比赛等重要的任务和其他富有挑战性的工作要大胆地交给他们去做，使他们在完成任务受到锻炼的同时，体会到实现自我价值的快乐，感受到领导的信任和门派的重视，实现其成就感和满足感；二是，家族的管理权限很多，族长要敢于授权。针对他们各自的能力和水平，给予得当的权力，不必事事亲躬，即落得自己的超脱，又是他们感觉到自己得到了重用。总结起来就是要大胆放权，要用人不疑，疑人不用。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">说回来，充分信任却不能放任自流。要掌握不失控，给予重任的同时要把握好担子的分量，明明其人有千斤的能力却压上万斤重担，不但会收不到任务的有效落实，也容易压垮此人，从此造成他的心理负担；二是要注意不能布置完任务就不闻不问，一推</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">625</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">，而要随时宏观调控，保证完成任务的实效和质量，同时家族的制约措施要到位，防止下属们滥用职权、为所欲为，避免造成不必要的麻烦和损失，做到授权不落权，放手不撒手，保证能人们在积极发挥聪明才智的同时也能够循规蹈矩。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #660066; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b></p>

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<p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">如何做一个合格的</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族中人</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">自己是一个传奇的老玩家，进入传奇也有多年的历史了，感慨颇多。在这里想谈谈如何做好一个</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族中人</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">（一）、以人为本</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">从做人开始，借助沟通飞跃</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">1</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、与管理沟通：每个人在进入我们的家族时都是从家族的最基层的职务开始做起，既然是基层，就必然会有相应的领导，而正是这些我们最初的</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">良师</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">（很多最后都成为了我们的</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">益友</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">），这时对于刚刚涉足网络的我们，是非常重要的。古人云：三人行，必有我师。这些带我们进入网络世界的人就是我们所谓的</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">领导</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">，我们要时刻领会他们的意图，让他们感觉你是个可造之材，凡事做到</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">先想、先做、先成。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">成为值得他信赖的人，这样你就有更多展示自己的机会，这些对于我们以后在家族日后的发展是非常关键的一步。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">2</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、与成员交往：中国有句古话</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">水能载舟，亦能覆舟</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">，这句话用到与成员之间的相处上同样适合，只有与周围的大多数成员和平共处，才能获得快乐的游戏环境，如若不然，即使有一天你在家族中做到了管理的职位，那也是光杆司令，试想如果一个领导者失去了下属的拥护，那他的发号施令是绝不会有人服从的。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">（二）选择适合自己发展的家族工作</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">男怕选错行，女怕选错郎</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”, </span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">一个人在家族的如何发展很大程度上取决于机会和工作，机会具有偶然性，没有办法控制，但在工作选择的问题上我们则掌握着主动权，工作选择的正确与否是我们每个人四国生涯中极为关键的一步，个人选择工作的标准也不尽相同，下面是我总结的几点重要的标准：</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">1</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、你对这个家族工作是否感兴趣，这决定了这个工作能否激发你的个人潜能，让你更出色；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">2</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、工作发展前景：在无所谓兴趣的前提下，当然要选择能够长期发展，并能够展示自己更多才能的；</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">3</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、有利益的工作：不管我们说的多么高尚，最终的目的还是在游戏之外有另一个展示自己的舞台，当然这里也不乏想取得某些物质利益的人，因为他们觉得只有奖励才能更好的体现自己在家族的价值。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">（三）如何让自己更优秀？</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">好了，假如你是一个很有素质，思想道德很高尚的人，又有了自己心仪的家族工作，那么究竟怎样才能让自己变得更优秀呢？</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">1</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、要有勇气挑战一切：想成功，首先要有自信，敢于挑战，对一切不可能再见，不要以文化水平低，经验少之类的借口打击自己。很多成功的人都并不是同时具备文化和经验的优异条件，但是他们同样取得了成功。我们也可以，但前期是我们必须努力。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">2</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、尊敬每一个人：要想长期在一个家族发展，而且取得成就，必须要有很好的人脉关系，这需要你日常的积累，对你的上级、同门乃至你的竞争对手的尊敬，都会增加你个人的魅力，为长期稳定的发展奠定扎实的基础。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">3</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、不间断地以各种形式学习：只有用知识把自己武装起来，才能在四国中叱诧风云所向披靡。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">“</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">学无止境</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">”</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">，学习让你在应付各项工作的时候游刃有余，学习让你有能力迈向更高更远的目标。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/></span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">4</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">、超越别人的心：这是一种心态，一种意志，要有超越别人的心理，经常告诉自己，既然做就要做最好的，这是成功的基本。不想做将军的兵不是好兵，有信心和决心我们就能做到成功的超越。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #009999; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        <p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"> <p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">车跑得快，全要车头带</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">家族要不断向前发展，也需各位管理人员来充当领头雁，因此管理人员的素质直接影响着家族的发展！偶认为，对各堂管理人员要有严格的审批，管理人员至少应由在社团有一定威望的人担任，各管理人员的交际应广，影响力应大，对社忠贞不渝，绝对主号。在基地房间里是带头活跃的，不要什么事都是保持沉默，那怕在游戏大厅聊聊天也是在帮家族作宣传，这样就会帮家族吸引到更多玩家。管理人员有空也可以用小号去一些发展快的家族学习下经验，这样对自己和家族都有帮助。</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">
                        </span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><br/></span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">当然家族是大家的</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">要靠大家</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">不在几个管理员，光靠管理员的家族不是合格的家族。管理勤奋</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">中层热心</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">社员参与</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,</span></b><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">有此足矣</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">!</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></b></p>